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Kids should be listened to NOT HEARD!

According to the old English proverb, children should be seen and not heard, meaning that children to be….

According to the old English proverb, children should be seen and not heard, meaning that children to be present during a conversation but should not be allowed to speak unless they are spoken to first.


You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.
Zig Ziglar

Here is a statement from a writer who describes growing up in a generation with conflicting answers, when asked for their view.

As a child, I always felt disrespected because this phrase was used as ammo against naturally talkative children (chatterbox was commonly used to describe both my sister and I). It was not utilized in a way to make children feel like there was a lesson to be had – but there was.

As a child who was supposed to be quiet all the time, adults would always talk about things that they probably shouldn’t have in front of a child. So, for better or worse, I learned A LOT about family politics, family history, local neighborhood gossip, why a politician was good or bad, religion, etc…

Self expression is a thing that a allows us to communicate with clarity, is it not… Hazte Oir are artists and they are a European Humanist Federation

Don’t pretend to be a parent. It’s a bad habit to develop, worse than smoking, or drinking, or gambling.

Stop neglecting your child or children. Don’t ever act like this moment and your immediate convenience is all that matters.

It doesn’t.

Don’t imagine you are the only important person in the family.

You aren’t.

That kid will grow up to be an adult. What kind of adult do you want that person to be? What kind of parent do you want that person to become? How do you want that person to treat you when you’re dependent on others for aid, security and protection?

Teach someone to be silent, to be invisible, and one day you’ll find that person has grown up and isn’t there any more.

We’re meant to be social beings. We’re meant to be inter-dependent and independent. Encourage it. Cherish it. Teach a child to respect it, to give the others the courtesy of being heard because they will receive that courtesy in return.

Consistently show them what ‘respect’, ‘humanity’, ‘courtesy’ mean and you won’t need to worry about ‘chatterboxes’ or ‘noisy kids’.

Kids should be listened to NOT HEARD!
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